Carolyn Hax

Carolyn Hax: Boyfriend’s outgoing personality unnerves introvert

A social experiment could help determine if a couple moving at different speeds are compatible.

Carolyn Hax: Boyfriend needs a shock to his value system

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A controlling and presumptuous nature and his overbearing mother are red flags a woman can do without.

Carolyn Hax: Spouse’s disengagement during pregnancy is disconcerting

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A woman might need to consider counseling when her husband loses interest while she’s expecting.

Carolyn Hax: How can I deal with my overstepping mother-in-law?

Comics page

A woman’s discomfort reaches the threshold. Is avoidance the only way to keep her marriage on track?

Carolyn Hax: Her victory over his inbox still leaves her hollow

Hax

Her boyfriend reached out to an ex. But her crackdown left her with no reassurances of trust to show for it.

Advice Columnists

Civilities

Civilities: Why can you fly the rainbow flag but I can’t fly the Confederate flag?

Civilities: Why can you fly the rainbow flag but I can’t fly the Confederate flag?

Steven Petrow explains why the two flags elicit different responses.

Civilities: Is it time to include ‘Mx.’ in the mix with ‘Ms.’ and ‘Mr.’?

Civilities: Is it time to include ‘Mx.’ in the mix with ‘Ms.’ and ‘Mr.’?

Steven Petrow gives tips on how to address people who prefer to stay on gender-neutral terms.

Civilities: A lesbian mom asks: How do I stop our Catholic bishop from insulting my family?

Civilities: A lesbian mom asks: How do I stop our Catholic bishop from insulting my family?

Steven Petrow advises that “suck it up” is not the right answer.

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Hints from Heloise

Hints From Heloise: Two travel without doubling up

Mother-daughter duo packs as a team.

Hints From Heloise: Upside-down medication method?

Heloise politely disagrees with a reader’s suggestion for keeping track of medication.

Hints From Heloise: Avocados done right

Tips on buying and storing the green goodness that is the avocado.

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Animal Doctor

Animal Doctor: No easy solution when cats take over a yard

Free-roaming cats create many problems; cats on a leash; poisonous plants; a cat’s averse reaction to rain.

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Ask Amy

Ask Amy: Should she choose Guy A or Guy B?

Amy makes it clear that Option C, Neither, is the only healthy choice.

Ask Amy: An ingrate abroad

Who’s worse: The ungrateful couch surfer or the tour guide/host who’s badgering for a five-star review?

Ask Amy: Old grievance brings on Big Chill

An estranged friend is throwing a 50th birthday party. Time to bury the hatchet?

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Miss Manners

Miss Manners: Charitable gift brings no pleasure to honoree

One couple donates to a charity in the reader’s name — an anti-gay charity, and the reader is gay.

Miss Manners: Teen girl in suit is not violating dress code

Why does the Gentle Reader believe that female suit-wearing equates with gender preference?

Miss Manners: There’s no point in hiding a gift card’s amount

The gentility of concealing the price of a gift does not extend to gift cards.

Miss Manners: Blushing does not require an explanation

To the question ‘Why is your face so red?,’ the Gentle Reader need only reply ‘You’re embarrassing me.’

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@Work Advice columnist Karla Miller (DEB LINDSEY/FOR THE WASHINGTON POST)

Work Advice: Leave issues should not be left unturned

Vacation and sick pay problems include when to use the days and being asked to pay them back.

Family

Family Almanac

Illustration by HADLEY HOOPER for THE WASHINGTON POST

A few final thoughts from Marguerite Kelly

The parenting columnist offers her best advice after 35 years of writing.

Illusration by Hadley Hooper for The Washington Post

When co-sleeping leads to commotion

FAMILY ALMANAC | Two boys, 4 and 9, enjoy co-sleeping, but it can cause commotion.

Help! My teen son is driving me crazy

Her 14-year-old doesn’t listen and Marguerite Kelly advises how to handle it.

Meghan Leahy

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What to do when a toddler lies

How to teach an almost 3-year-old the importance of telling the truth.

On Parenting: Meghan Leahy, Amy Joyce take questions about parenting

Join us at 11 a.m. to talk all things parenting.

On Parenting: Meghan Leahy, Amy Joyce take questions about parenting

Join us at 11 a.m. to talk all things parenting.

On Parenting: Meghan Leahy, Amy Joyce take questions about parenting

Join us at 11 a.m. to talk all things parenting.

Istock

When your 5-year-old asks about the F-word

Don’t overthink it, tell the truth, and don’t make it taboo (because then you will never stop hearing it).

Date Lab

Christina and Drew

Date Lab: These two even match up on the Myers-Briggs personality test

Is having so much in common a good thing when it comes to romance?

Mike and Francine

A little seasoned straight talk adds plenty of spice to their dinner

Francine and Michael are at similar points in life, and seemed to have fun. But love and war and all that ...

Rob and Sarah

Date Lab: Alpha male meets Sarah from Seattle

He is a zealot about running. Can she keep up with him?

Date Lab: Noah and Emily Jun30 2015

Date Lab: These tall redheads don’t exactly see eye-to-eye

For one of them, a couple of deal-breakers presented themselves.

Date Labbers David and Rachel

Date Lab: Who needs chemistry if you have stimulating conversation?

Two introverts find they have a lot to talk about together.

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